When finding their friends doing something wrong, someone will take no actions, while others try to stop the wrongdoings, although it may hurt the friendship? Which way do you prefer?
With the sheer passage of time, our life is becoming much better than the past, everyone has his or her friends, and they all can help you become successful. When you are depressed, the friends can encourage you, telling you not to give up; when you misunderstand something, the friends also can tell the fact they know. So the friendship is very important for us. However, when you find your friends doing something wrong, will you tell him or her to stop the wrongdoings or do nothing? In my opinion, I will choose the latter. The reasons for my views go as following.
To start with, I consider the friendship is one of the significant things in my life. I do not want to miss it. If I tell the fact to my friends and stop the wrongdoings, it may break our friendship. Thus, I will support my friends to do anything whatever it is, and then it can improve our friendship. What’s more, everyone has his or her opinions; we cannot tamper him or her.
Secondly, the things in the world are not absolute. No one knows the fact. Maybe the things you think it is right is not suitable for your friends. So you will misunderstand your friends or mislead them in wrong ways. Take my best friend Jin as an example, he chose a single subject when he was in the university. One day, one of his friends told him to take courses in a variety of subjects in order to get a broad education. However, he got lower store than before in the exam. It is not suitable for him, and Jin could not learn such many subject areas at one time.
Finally, I think maybe there is someone who is headstrong. He or she will not listen to you and even considers his or her opinions are exact. Take my friends A Yao as an example, he is outgoing and optimistic. We all like him. But he is always hardheaded for everything. When we find that he is doing something wrong and tell him what is right, he has never listened to us, and he says that it’s none of your business. So we give up stopping A Yao.
In conclusion, I consider that we should not tell our friends the fact no matter it is correct or incorrect for several reasons I mentioned above. Moreover, if you want to keep the friendship, you had better be silent.
